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The Cage You Built without Knowing It

The Cage You Built without Knowing It

The feeling doesn't come because the identity won't let it.

Alessandra Derniat
Alessandra Derniat
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Why You Don't Feel Like It

Why You Don't Feel Like It

The feeling isn't random. It's reporting on who you believe you are.

Alessandra Derniat
Alessandra Derniat
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The Costume Underneath

The Costume Underneath

Inflexibility and attachment shared the same address. So does micromanaging.

Alessandra Derniat
Alessandra Derniat
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Resistance Wears Costumes

Resistance Wears Costumes

This week, it's wearing attachment.

Alessandra Derniat
Alessandra Derniat
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The Most Convincing Form of Resistance

The Most Convincing Form of Resistance

It feels like stability. It feels like truth. It is neither.

Alessandra Derniat
Alessandra Derniat
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Why Removing Distractions Does Not Work

Why Removing Distractions Does Not Work

Being distracted is the behavior that resistance produces.

Alessandra Derniat
Alessandra Derniat
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Alignment vs. Purpose

Alignment vs. Purpose

In the Frictionless Mindset, action doesn’t come from purpose. It comes from Alignment.

Alessandra Derniat
Alessandra Derniat
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The Lie Inside "I Don't Feel Like It"

The Lie Inside "I Don't Feel Like It"

Why waiting to 'feel like it' does not lead to freedom.

Alessandra Derniat
Alessandra Derniat
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When "I Am" Becomes a Stop Sign

When "I Am" Becomes a Stop Sign

The quiet way feelings take over and what helps to break the hold

Alessandra Derniat
Alessandra Derniat
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The Feeling-Action Chain

The Feeling-Action Chain

The belief that makes action conditional.

Alessandra Derniat
Alessandra Derniat
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After the Unexpected

After the Unexpected

Make sure your response to unexpected events is not disguised resistance.

Alessandra Derniat
Alessandra Derniat
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You Know Where You Are Going. So Why are Decisions So Hard?

You Know Where You Are Going. So Why are Decisions So Hard?

Clarity about what matters is powerful. But clarity alone does not change much.

Alessandra Derniat
Alessandra Derniat
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